Comments on: You see in your own life what you believe

By: Ross

Ross — Mon, 22 Dec 2008 01:30:49 +0000

@Ruth – hi, welcome and thanks for taking the time to comment… I haven’t read that particular book, but can totally relate to hearing other people’s stories and being inspired!!

By: Ruth

Ruth — Mon, 01 Dec 2008 06:26:52 +0000

I think we definitely allow self-limiting beliefs to hold us back. I know I do it in a lot of different ways. And then I read something like Azeem Kayum's story in Wrestling With the Goddess and get totally inspired by how he has broken through those limiting beliefs and overcome obstacles that would stop many people in their tracks. So I know it can be done and hearing that others have done so gives me the courage to try once again to get there myself.

By: Ross

Ross — Sun, 23 Nov 2008 10:53:20 +0000

@Pace – Hi, thanks for taking the time to comment. Here’s a snip of my favourite line from your comment:
“If I believe that bad things happen to me and opportunities pass me by because the world is a harsh and uncaring place, then, well, it sucks to be me.” I love it. I may even direct quote it down the track and attribute it back to you – it’s really a great quote!

@SteveC – Hi, welcome! Well done with the running, it’s amazing what we can achieve once we get past our limiting beliefs! I always appreciate your insight, thanks for taking the time to comment.

By: Steve C | MyWifeQuitHerJob

Steve C | MyWifeQuitHerJob — Sat, 22 Nov 2008 18:12:37 +0000

Hi Ross, A very thought provoking article! This reminds me of something my friend once told me about motorcycle racing. You can never get good at racing unless you crash because it is only through crashing that you can know the limits of your bike. I'm always surprised by what I can accomplish given enough time to do so. For example, when I first started running, I could barely finish a mile, but now I can run 10 times that distance (albeit slowly) If you asked me back then, I would have never thought I could do it. Great post! Steve C | MyWifeQuitHerJob’s last blog post..How Our Online Business Brought My Wife And I Closer Together

By: Pace

Pace — Fri, 21 Nov 2008 16:17:34 +0000

It's scary to admit that our only limitations are the ones we impose on ourselves. If we admit that, we're forced to take responsibility for our own lives. If I believe that bad things happen to me and opportunities pass me by because the world is a harsh and uncaring place, then, well, it sucks to be me, but that's about it. I feel safe in my paradigm of suckiness and my victim mentality. But if I believe that I'm choosing to let those opportunities pass me by and that by extension I'm choosing to let bad things happen to me? That's an AWFUL LOT of responsibility there. I think that's why most people set limits for themselves, or stick to the ones they learned when they were young. Being told what you can and can't do (even if it's really yourself that's telling you) feels safer and more secure. Pace’s last blog post..Mushy anniversary post. (:

By: Ross

Ross — Fri, 21 Nov 2008 14:52:46 +0000

@Vincent – Hi there… Sometimes we strive for goals, but have things holding us back – I think when you truly believe it’s possible to reach new heights as you mention, that’s when you really start seeing some results.

@Julie – Hi, thanks for visiting! It really is about stretching thinking a little more, as you mention… I think when we realise that we limit ourselves by not stretching our imagination, we open the door for greater things. I appreciate your comments and your kind words, thanks a lot!

By: Julie

Julie — Fri, 21 Nov 2008 12:04:44 +0000

Ross, hi. This was thought-provoking; I love it. It’s a concept I’ve heard before, but not enough for it to have sunk in as deeply as I’d like. While I’ve come to believe the world’s my oyster, so to speak, bringing it back to a more practical level is SO beneficial. “Your…comfort zone affects…” is a wonderful concept to explore. Steve Pavlina writes about this, often, but I just didn’t make it personal. Now that I have some new goals, I’m going stretch my thinking a bit. Thank you for posting this topic. I’m glad I found you!

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By: Vincent

Vincent — Fri, 21 Nov 2008 06:43:00 +0000

Only when we see it is possible, than it is possible to achieve. Our beliefs can either be a limiting factor or an important factor that will push us to success. Cheers Vincent Personal Development Blogger Vincent’s last blog post..30 Days Challenge to a Healthier Body

By: Ross

Ross — Fri, 21 Nov 2008 01:30:15 +0000

@Bunny – Hey there, welcome! I’m pleased to hear you feel complete, maybe always being on the lookout for ventures, as you say, contributes to feeling there are no limitations holding you back.

@Viriya – You touch on something I was thinking of while writing this post –> our lives are made up of several key areas. While we can be successful financially, it doesn’t help us to be happy. Or fit. Or lucky in love We have to face life with a multidimensional focus and be aware of limitations in many different areas. Thanks for commenting.

By: Viriya

Viriya — Fri, 21 Nov 2008 01:17:17 +0000

Ross, I recently read the book "The Answer" by John Assaraf and Murray Smith. The authors wrote that "thought creates everything". They went into details about subatomic level, quantum physics, energy, and all that. The finding is interesting; you might want to take a look at this book if you haven't. Related to Ross' article, I never have the financial limit and I believe that I can have it all. I'm never worried about it and I believe that there is a great thing ahead. HOWEVER, regarding how I drink or eat (Wellness), I have a subliminal limit that keeps telling me "You can't stop drinking." And that is painful. It is holding me back. One of my best friends keeps saying to himself that he could not have a secured and stable relationship. And he couldn't. I am not wealthy but I am happy with my current belief and my way ahead. But things do not balance themselves out; my health is holding me back and that's quite a problem considering my relatively young age. It is quite troublesome writing a post on my blog or a comment while I'm having a terrible hang over (now, for example). There must be a way out. So, thank you Ross to make me think of it. Viriya’s last blog post..Matching Your Personality with Your Career