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One of the greatest things about my relationship with my wife is that we have a lot of “in” jokes, little one and two word sayings that trigger memorable or funny times in our life that we shared together. I don’t know if all couples share in this crazy game, or if it’s [...]
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One of my daughters is quite the ‘what if?’ person. You know, “what if” we don’t make it there on time? “What if” the dentist has to pull out all my teeth? She always looks quite concerned when she asks the question, and I’ve recently been on a quest to try [...]
It would be fair to say that there have been several times in my life when I have smiled, smirked, snorted and even laughed at completely inappropriate times.
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It’s bad enough that this has happened, but what makes it worse is that I really honestly don’t mean to! And it really honestly sounds [...]
There are certain responsibilities that come with being the ‘man of the house’.
Many of these are routine things: being the primary or joint earner, being Mr. fix-it, doing the heavy lifting, checking the car oil, doing the mowing etc…
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A man is also expected to compliment or be a buffer to others in the household [...]
People were not meant to be alone…
A simple statement, but one that has genuine meaning.
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People thrive on being with and around other people. Depending on your upbringing and personality, some people find it easier to be around and interact with other people, and others find it terrifying and difficult. Regardless, we were all [...]
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People are filled with regret for many reasons. I met a man last week who hammered his mountain bike down a hill and hit a pedestrian, who will most likely die from head injuries. I know of people who have driven their car after drinking. I know a man who was [...]
Sometimes I’ve heard my kids come out with statements such as ‘Oh, I’m so stressed right now’ or ‘you’re making me feel stressed’. In reality, these feelings of stress typically become a lot greater as we get older and our responsibilities change, and when I hear my kids make such statement I often think [...]
Fear is crazy cool. Crazy because it forces you to do some crazy stuff that can be pretty embarrassing later on; cool because it can save your life.
The key is finding a balance so that your natural responses to fear are justified and managed. (Note - screaming and leaping on the table when a [...]
Emotions are one of the great parts of being human!
Think about the faces you make when you drop one of your partner’s favourite things and it breaks - you look up at each other…. what is conveyed? Anger? Saddness? Irritation? In that split second, your facial expression tells a thousand [...]
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It’s an interesting question - am I happy with life? The answer to this is so subjective. Take two people and put them in identical situations - you may find that one person feels happy and fulfilled, and the other person feels like something is missing.
There is no foolproof algorithm that can be [...]